November
It’s still 2020. (IKR)
Some of ya’ll swear that you just don’t understand what to do with yourselves, especially now that the world is flipped tf inside out. Here is some free game to keep in mind and get you (back) on track.
This pandemic is already emotionally exhausting. Now you want folks to care about your new ‘COVID bae’ too? Ummmmm… Besides…we… your family and friends won’t let them come around unless:
1. You’re ready to propose
2. They are ready to propose to you
3. Ya’ll are moving in together tomorrow
p.s. Hopefully, there are no surprises for you waiting under that mask.
Stop …
turning ‘red flag’ behaviors into a ‘green flag’ traits for new beauxs and belles.
Spare our timelines.
Get a journal.
C’mon.
You could have written half of those deep ass memes that you are constantly re-posting, but you’re too lazy scrolling through your timeline looking for entertainment instead of personal growth.
If you have a five-year-old child in your life,
this is especially for you.
If you think you’re getting away with imposter syndrome, especially on social media, your five-year-old knows that you’re full of shit.
Stop.
Receive this.
Ask for help.
Dear Netflix Heauxs-
What if you watched less Netflix and invested more time in your personal growth?
What if you re-purposed four (4) of your fifteen (15) Netflix hours per/week and got yourself a therapist to discuss why everyone in your life treats you like ‘kaka’? You’ll need:
One (1) hour for the actual therapy session
One (1) hour to unpack and reflect as you work on your accountability
One (1) to contemplate blame-shifting instead of being accountable or speaking up when you usually accept shitty behavior from people you love
One (1) hour to make a phone call that could actually lead to healing
What if you decided to invest time in becoming a #flourishbae?
p.s. Don’t forget to clean your bathroom(s) while listening to a bop.
The 2020 pandemic=New DOPE Music Streaming
Saying thank you to someone is literally the best thing that you can do every single day. It costs you nothing and it tricks people into thinking you’re an amazing person. If you say ‘thank you’ too much, you may actually end up becoming an amazing person. Try it out.
It’s free.
… that’s Free Game November.
(There’s still time to get it together.)
xoxo
-iamgayima